Everyone has their own problems
I was trying to cheer Jam up as she was sobbing due to stress from work, family, studies and relationship. The biggest obstacle in her relationship is religion where she is a buddhist and the boyfriend is a devoted christian. His family members are really nice to her. But of course, she awares that his mother is hoping she will join ‘their inner circle’ one day. Jam was working on xmas eve and xmas as well. She got no choice because she was needed badly to work on this festive season. Her boyfriend claimed that she purposely chose to work to avoid going to church with him.
So bad, hor? I mean, you know she is a buddhist. And mind you, she did go to church once with you. She respects you and she knows it’s important to you. But, you DID indirectly forcing her to go to church by asking her every Sunday albeit knowing the fact she is a buddhist. So she went and she had showed you her respect and tolerance. But you? You seems irrespectful of her religion belief to me. Somemore suspected her to purposely avoid from going to church by working during xmas. So not understanding and selfish.
Both of them love each other but they are stuck now because of their different religion beliefs. And arguments and conflicts come along to make things worse.
Actually her boyfriend treats her very nice. He is quite a nice guy. But nothing is perfect in a relationship, right? So she is very confuse as to let go or just let it be. But she knows clearly that this is not going to work. There is nothing you can do about religion beliefs.
They love each other but it’s hard for them to stay together in the future. While me and Him, loved but never appreciate. There are times when I needed him to be there with me, but he just didn’t see my needs. Why I can tell that particular moments he needed me to be there and I did, but he never does the same thing for me?
I just msged Him that I’m not going to see him anymore. 
What to do? I have to move on. Without him.
-Need but neglected. Trust but abused. Devote but unappreciated. So me is leaving now. -
