I just happened to come across this and all I wanted to say is I feel sorry for you. Hope you and your wife stay strong and together.

And there’s a comment by Heather Meadows. She wrote a poem which I find very thoughtful, moving and beautiful.

    I Miss You

    little fingers
    bunchy with skin
    stubby, flailing, grasping
    little toes pointing out of fat feet
    little heels kicking at air
    joints bent tightly, fresh from the womb
    tiny wisps of hair on your head
    huge watery eyes squinting as you smile
    your untrained face following mine
    I love you
    I want to hold you close
    protect you
    teach you what little I know
    let you teach me
    kiss your soft skin
    brush your soft hair
    play with your fingers
    I miss you
    my child who will never be

For Cheeto.